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People mostly confabulate about a mother’s love, care and affection, in which a father’s love often gets hidden or ignored. We hear, see, read and frequently talk about a mother’s love for her child but on this specific day, I would like to draw the attention of the esteemed readers towards father’s love for his children along with his sacrifices for his family and would like to dedicate this piece of article to all those who can relate with it. People talk about actors, their films and are inspired greatly by their celluloid performances, call them heroes and desire to be like them in some way or the other but they completely forget to talk about the real heroes of their lives who devote their outright lives in realising the dreams of their children. What about that person whose presence in this world is indescribable in real words and nurtures us throughout our lives in the most beautiful fashion.
Who is a Father? The optimum answer can be: A Father is such an entity who personifies himself in the form of God, fulfills all our needs and dreams, pays our dues for acquiring quality education, embellishes our rooms with toys of every kind, takes us to the hospital whenever we fall ill at late nights, stands like a mountain between our problems and hardships and moves heaven and earth to bring endless smiles to his childrens’ faces. A father can be a paragon, teacher, best friend, trainer, guide and inspiration for his children. The more you in your bonnet about a father, the more you glorify him and when you become a single father you do everything that once seemed impossible.You can function without sleep, change diapers within seconds, potty-train your kids like an expert and shop for hours for matching outfits.You become a cook, a teacher, a fashion designer, a home-remedy expert, all at once.
I remember I have grown up holding an index finger of my father tightly walking in the streets, bazaars or elsewhere I go with him. He used to say ‘hold my finger’ in order to safeguard me from hitting any motorcycle or any obstacle coming my way or may be, children have a propensity to walk on the edges of the streets along with the drains so, they might not slip into it. I recall when I would go to the fair with my father infrequently and I used to chivvy him to buy me artificial guns, cars, bikes and figurines for my younger sister. I also used to badger him to buy me a new bicycle whenever i saw someone running it but he didn’t as he thought that I would hurt myself. Those childhood memories are still fresh, unforgettable, ineffaceable in my mind and haunt me to date. If someone is said and commissioned to become a father and perform his duties for a day, he will be failed completely and concoction of tensions and anxieties will prevail over his face. So,becoming a father is like cutting a Gordian knot he has ever experienced as it requires an immense courage and firm determination to perform the duties of a father. Being a quinquagenarian along with his senescence, It is true that his eyesight has become weak but he has shown me the right path to become a responsible, hard-working and resilient person in my life.Life is such a hard and bitter thing which has no catholicon.
People post countless photos on social media, pen down heartfelt notes and update status on mother’s Day to manifest their love for their mothers but when Father’s Day comes, hardly any remembers and celebrates this day with so much verve and elan.It is extremely disheartening to see when we disregard Father’s Day. We must change this ingrained institution from this year on as father’s Day is approaching on the third week of june.Let’s change people’ views about a father whose place can never be taken in life.Let’s make it a rage,pay passionate tribute to our fathers(as I have paid mine) and pen down overwhelming heartfelt note one’s fathers on this father’s Day.
There is a famous saying about a father, “If ‘promised land’ lies at mother’s feet then the father is its door”.In a nutshell, this is unfair and impossible to compress his 60 years in some hundred words. A Father is such a sublime entity that can never ever be described even in dissertations.He too merits more attention, glorification, love and happiness more than anything else. When someone indulges himself in such activities to please his father,I completely believe that Allah will realise all his desires from His hidden treasures that he desiderates. We are all highly indebted to our fathers and should be grateful to them for not giving us the life they have spent.
Hamza Malick is a petit-maître and has a Master degree in Education. He takes great interest in writing articles. He can be reached at hamza.malick0341@mail.com.
Hamza Malick is a petit-maître and has a Master degree in Education. He takes great interest in writing articles. He can be reached at hamza.malick0341@mail.com.
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